When to have the drugs and alcohol talk with kids

11:57 AM, Nov 28, 2017
11:48 AM, Nov 17, 2018

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">The impulse to shield their children from the world’s cruelties leads many parents to delay talks about tough topics like drugs and alcohol. Often, parents don’t know what to say or are at a loss about trends and forms of drugs.</span></span></span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">Not knowing much about illicit substances, including the legality, health effects, appearance or how they could affect a person can make it impossible for teenagers to know what to do if they are offered drugs or alcohol.</span></span></span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">Talking to your teenagers beforehand, even to children as young as 10 years old, can help them know what to do and how to think about these types of situations. Here are ways to approach these tricky conversations with the young people in your life.</span></span></span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">Underage drinking and drug trends</span></span></span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">Increasingly, teens are exposed to or offered drugs at school or by their peers; some have already used marijuana by age 12, </span></span>a national study</span></span> <span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">found.</span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">"By age 15, about 33 percent of teens have had at least one drink. By age 18, about 60 percent of teens have had at least one drink," found another study by the </span></span>National Institute on Alcohol Abuse</span></span><span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">.</span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">Because alcohol is the most used drug by underage people in the United States, and drunk driving or alcohol poisoning claims so many lives each year, underage drinking has been called a </span></span>major public health challenge</span></span><span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">.</span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">Increasingly, the abuse of </span></span>common cold medicines or prescription drugs</span></span> <span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">is becoming common in teenagers. Because parents often leave these substances out, and they are readily available, their abuse is especially concerning.</span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">Speaking to your kids</span></span></span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">It's up to every parent to decide the right time to talk about drugs and alcohol. However, because statistics point to early ages as the time when most kids are offered drugs, many experts advise approaching the subject earlier rather than later, or even beginning conversations at a young age to open the topic, and then elaborating in more detail about </span></span>cigarettes</span></span><span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">, drugs and alcohol as they get older.</span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">Knowing facts and talking about reactions to scenarios involving drugs and alcohol increases the likelihood teens will make good decisions that will lead them to happy and healthy futures, psychologist </span></span>Lisa Damour</span></span> <span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">said.</span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">Talking to your kids or even </span></span>role-playing</span></span> <span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">specific situations they will likely encounter as they age can give them the tools they need to make good decisions in the future.</span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">Resources you can use</span></span></span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">Luckily for parents, there are many </span></span>teaching resources online</span></span><span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">, with information about drug names and trends, to prepare for these kinds of conversations.</span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">When you have a frank relationship with your kids, they will be more likely to come to you about problems they face in the future.</span></span></span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">Addiction is a crushing weight to bear for all involved. With professional help for all parties, relief can come for those that are willing.  Professional help can come from treatment centers like Bakersfield Behavioral Healthcare Hospital.</span></span></span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">Substance misuse and dependence has become a significant issue in society today, and it affects individuals from all walks of life. The chemical dependency treatment at Bakersfield Behavioral Healthcare Hospital is designed to help alleviate the physiological effects of detoxifying and cleansing the body from substances. The hospital provides guidance, education, and support during the most intense part of this process.</span></span></span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">Patients admitted to the chemical dependency program participate in a medically supervised recovery program designed to assist them through withdrawal from mind-altering chemicals, licit or illicit. Bakersfield Behavioral Healthcare Hospital believes that chemical dependency is a disease with its own set of progressive symptoms which may be identified and treated.</span></span></span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">The hospital also believes that chemical dependency manifests itself uniquely in each individual and family and that recovery is s dynamic process. Bakersfield Behavioral Healthcare Hospital is committed to deliver recovery-based treatment in a therapeutic client-centered environment which respects every individual’s rights, dignity and needs.</span></span></span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">Bakersfield Behavioral Healthcare Hospital works collaboratively with the patient in the recovery process. If you or a loved one is dealing with substance misuse and dependency and need chemical dependency services that accommodate you or your loved one’s addiction, check out Bakersfield Behavioral Healthcare Hospital’s </span></span>website</span></span><span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif"> or call 877-955-5487.</span></span>

<span style="font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Verdana&quot;,sans-serif">We don’t just provide chemical dependency treatment, we provide care.</span></span></span></span>

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